Psychology at work

What you see in others is often what you mind about yourself. ( or what you take pride in yourself)

I can't agree more.

Just like how I always like to observe ppl's tummy bcos I dismay at how mine can never be as flat as I want! hahz

No...you are not gonna read a list of what I observe about others to get a clue of what I mind about myself cos this is gonna make you focus more on the areas that you think you know what I am sensitive towards about myself! (forgive me, I'm a psychology major...)

But disclosure breeds liking....the more I tell you about me, the more you will like me .... hmm...let me consider whether to let you like me more or not...

Alright I can allow you to know this:

I like to observe ppl's handwriting. Whether its the person sitting next to me in lecture, my teacher's handwriting, my project mate etc....

You should have guessed what I mean by now if you can apply what you have learnt from my above illustration.

Yes, bingo. I don't like my handwriting to a point that I sometimes look at my notebook and the only thing that immediately pops up is the word ----'disgusting'----
I used to blame it on lousy pens but I realize its time I face up to reality and stop using the poor pen as the scapegoat....

I am totally amazed by ppl who can write superly neat even when taking fast notes. It's incredible to me. Yes it's incredible!!!! FAST AND NICE HANDWRITING, you hear that!! For crying out loud, how do they possibly do that???!!!!

For that, I never have the confidence to take up the appointment of a note taker in any meeting.

For that, I feel reluctant to lend ppl my lecture notes or any other notes cos it can be near to incomprehensible and I am kinda embarrassed abt it! I have even resorted to rubbing away and rewriting it before lending it to the person the next day! It was so troublesome that I no longer do that larh...

Sometimes I even have the little paranoia that the person sitting beside me in tutorial must be disgusted by what I am writing to the point that she must be feeling the urge to puke!

Infact, I can write nicely if I want. BUT this will be at the expense of my speed. But here I am talking about ppl who can write fast and nice, yes....many girls can do it but why can't I??? I sometimes observe how a girl 1 meter away from me in the lecture hall can keep writing so neatly and steadily and for a moment, I wonder if she a goddess from heaven.

I believe there is a correlation between a person's handwriting and his/her general tidyness. So I bet you are alreadi seeing how 'tidy' a person I am....

Ok well....for those whom you know you have all nice and wonderful handwriting to be proud of ....yeah you bet I am admiring you secretly.... though I do have specific liking for slim and stylish handwriting...



*Pls don't get nervous when you are writing infront of me the next time.
You either will expect me to like you for your wonderful handwriting or still like you for your ugly handwriting cos similarity also breeds liking...yeah !


[[[[[ sometimes i wonder the fact that you are studying psychology but you never seem to apply what you have learnt to understand what I am thinking!!]]]]]

((((( bcos I am using my heart to understand you!......! maybe it is not pumping hard enough........))))))